The Patty Show

For 50 episodes, The Patty Show has spotlighted the passions, pleasures, and positivity of others. But this time, the script flips—host Patty Setiadi takes the hot seat as his brother Arnold steps in as interviewer.
Patty reflects on his journey as the “nomadic outsider” who somehow always found ways to bring people together—whether in Norwalk, CT, Tangerang, Indonesia, Bridgeport, Los Angeles, Malmö, San Juan, or beyond. His story is one of constant movement, connection, and creativity.
👟 From being the oldest of six (and growing up quick) while watching his parents hustle…🎭 To grinding through multiple jobs, doing outdoor theater, and co-hosting a radio show…🦌 To rocking the Fairfield University sidelines as “Lucas the Stag,” the school mascot…🎤 To stand-up comedy, improv, acting, and now podcast hosting—Patty has lived many lives, each chapter shaping the voice you hear today.
In this milestone conversation, Patty opens up about:🌴 Passion – How his scattered creative pursuits connected into one clear purpose.🌴 Pleasure – The fun, playful escapes (and sometimes chaos) that keep him inspired.🌴 Positivity – Lessons on gratitude, resilience, and building paradise even when life throws curveballs.
Episode 50 isn’t just about looking back—it’s about celebrating the Patty Party community that’s grown with every conversation and carrying these lessons forward into the next 50 episodes.
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✨ From MIT to LA, from science to screen—Karen Chen is choosing joy every step of the way. 🎬💫
In this radiant episode, I’m joined by Karen Chen—a proud Chinese-American creative force whose story is just getting started. She’s an MIT grad turned LA-based actress and screenwriter, chasing dreams with grit, gratitude, and that signature joy we all need more of.
🎥 Her latest win? Co-writing a powerful short film about a friendship breakup with our good friend Leo, who joined us back in Episode 31! The film just wrapped production and is headed into post—big things are brewing 👀
Fun fact: Karen didn’t always see herself in front of the camera. It wasn’t until Marvel’s Black Panther: Wakanda Forever was filming on the MIT campus that a friend nudged her to try acting. That seed planted during college has now blossomed into a full-on creative life in LA—auditions, side hustles, and stories that matter.
In this episode, we dive into:
🌞 The power of real positivity and how to choose joy in your everyday🎬 The emotional journey of making a film rooted in friendship and heartbreak📚 How MIT shaped her mindset, resilience, and storytelling voice🌸 Why her Chinese heritage fuels her drive and creativity💫 Protecting your peace, avoiding toxic positivity, and savoring the small stuff
Karen’s journey is a reminder that you don’t have to force joy—you can choose it, grow it, and live it out loud.
👇 Tell us a moment this week when YOU chose joy in the comments & tag us with #ChoosingJoyEveryDay🛎️ Hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE & stay tuned—we’re dropping fresh episodes every Thursday.
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This week on The Patty Show, we're slowing down and celebrating the little things that bring big joy—and who better to join us than Andrew Murphy, someone I consider family.
Born and raised in Boston, Andrew carries that East Coast energy with pride while thriving in the city he now calls home. He’s a proud Mexican-American, and in this episode, we talk about how his roots and community shape his passion for service, mentorship, and meaningful living.
From volunteering at food pantries and mentoring with Big Brother, to repping Paisani Food Truck and working as a school counselor, Andrew lives with intention. We even walk through his finance bro era, his growing love for bachata and Latin dance, and his steady evolution—including leveling up his Spanish game.
We dive into:✨ What everyday pleasures bring him the most peace✨ How rituals and joy fuel his growth✨ Why choosing pleasure isn’t selfish—it’s powerful
🎧 Tune in and be reminded that pleasure doesn’t need to be flashy—it’s in the rhythm of daily life.
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What does it really mean to discover your life’s calling? In this episode, I’m joined by one of my Day 1s from Fairfield University, my Ghanaian brother and Boston-based baller — Sidney Sarfo! 🏀🇬🇭
From coaching lacrosse and dropping dimes on the basketball court (layups still questionable 🤭), to co-hosting the B.A.G. Podcast (Blunt, Authentic, Genuine) with our good friend Shawn Hall — Sid’s journey is full of purpose, personality, and powerful gems.
But this convo isn't just deep — it’s straight-up fun.
We talk about:– His passion for mentorship and coaching– Life in Boston, and yes… the occasional snowy adventures ❄️ (interpret that how you want 😏)– That one time Foot Locker didn’t hire him (wild, right?)– Funny flashbacks to his early jobs at Clark’s Shoes and Monkey Sports– And how he found purpose by staying true to himself — even when the path wasn’t clear
Whether you're figuring out your next chapter or just here for the jokes and good vibes, this episode will give you motivation and some laughs.
🔥 Spoiler: When you find your calling, the glow hits different.
🎯 Share your journey with us using #FindingYourLifesCalling
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This week, we’re joined by my family in spirit and heart — the one and only Nico Falah! A former NFL center, proud Colombian-Filipino, USC alum, and all-around resilient soul, Nico sits down with us to talk about what it really means to stay positive when life is throwing everything at you.
From jumping teams across the NFL to exploring life post-football, Nico opens up about the chaos, the growth, and the joy he's found through community, humor, and faith.
🎙 In this feel-good episode, we cover:– Nico’s experiences moving between multiple NFL teams and what he learned in each chapter– The truth about toxic positivity vs grounded optimism– His daily walking ritual and how it keeps him mentally and physically grounded– Why he’s now learning volleyball (yes, shoutout to his amazing girlfriend!)– How he uses laughter to cope, heal, and inspire others– The importance of giving back and staying rooted in community values
This episode is filled with authenticity, laughter, and the kind of brotherhood energy that reminds you: you’re not alone, and you can always find light in the mess.
🎧 Catch the full episode and share what helps YOU laugh through the chaos using #LaughThroughTheChaos
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Meet Thomas Lampkin — the multi-hyphenated maestro of vibes, event magic, and karaoke greatness. From co-producing Dreamville Festival to helping lead PRocon | Powered by The PR Alliance this August, Thomas is one of the hardest-working young creatives in the game. But beyond the titles, he’s also my Squid Game fam, a brother in life, and someone who knows the power of pleasure—not just in work, but in living.
In this episode, Thomas gets vulnerable about dating as a successful, ambitious man, and we explore how he stays grounded through it all with music, friendships, and Fall Out Boy karaoke sessions (yes, really—banger after banger 🎤).
We talk:✨ How to redefine pleasure without guilt🎶 The joy of karaoke, music, and sensory rituals🎪 Behind-the-scenes stories from major festivals💖 Embracing love, joy, and play—even in chaos
This episode is a reminder that pleasure isn’t selfish—it’s soul fuel. Whether you’re balancing a million projects or figuring out your next step, we all deserve to romanticize our lives and make room for joy.
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In this inspiring episode of The Patty Show, we're diving deep into the heart of passion and its ability to fuel a purposeful life. And who better to explore this with than my Aussie brother-from-another-mother, Hayden Maher — an actor, podcast host, and all-around beam of good energy.
From our days working together at the Squid Game Trials Experience, Hayden has always radiated positivity, passion, and kindness. You’ve seen his star rise in multiple acting projects, including the Hallmark reality hit "Finding Mister Christmas", and heard his voice on the Blondies Out Loud podcast. But off-camera, he's just as inspiring—volunteering his time at local dog shelters and always showing up with heart.
We talk about:
What true passion feels like and how it powers us through life's highs and lows
How to identify what truly lights your fire
What to do when your passion feels distant or tested
Whether you're chasing a dream or trying to reignite a spark, this episode is a reminder that passion is energy, and purpose is where it leads us.
🎧 Tune in now and find your fire.✨ And don’t forget to share your own passion story with us using #PowerOfPurpose.
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EP. 43 – Fueling the Light Within w/ Chris Tjajadi | The Patty ShowRelease Date: July 3, 2025
This week on The Patty Show, we bring the good vibes and real talk with the inspiring, brilliant, and hilarious Chris Tjajadi — a proud Indonesian storyteller, Netflix tech guy, and all-around light-bringer who's been rolling through life (literally!) with purpose and positivity.
From navigating life in a wheelchair to dropping tech wisdom and powerful life gems, Chris shows us that true strength lies in vulnerability, intention, and connection. We laugh, reflect, and even sprinkle in a bit of Japanese energy (yes, you’ll hear about a certain Tokyo dream 👘✨) as we dive into what it really means to fuel the light within.
🎧 In this episode, we cover:🔥 PASSION – How Chris’ story-first mindset and tech career collided to create purpose😌 PLEASURE – Why finding joy in little things (like sushi or gaming) makes life sweeter🌞 POSITIVITY – How Indonesian brotherhood, mentorship, and community can truly shift your life
Get ready for deep reflection and real laughter — this one’s got heart, humor, and a whole lot of healing. Whether you're finding your light or just need a reminder that you’ve got one, this episode will leave you feeling seen and lifted.
🌍 And let’s not forget: representation matters. This is about culture, connection, and celebrating stories that deserve the mic.
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